Biblical Mentoring / Fathering

A review of this book was compiled by:

Hugo Lourens

A summary of this book:

A systematic unpacking of what healthy Fathering looks like in the natural and how that translates in the roll of spiritual fathers and mentors specifically in raising up leaders and building team and ensuring that Godly values are passed on to the next generation. “Fathering is one of the most important relationships, if not the most important, in all of life, both our spiritual life and our natural life.” Fathering is both relational and functional both are essential to fashioning and forming individuals and team to fulfil a God given purpose and calling. We were made to be in family and it is the father that brings unity in the family through overseeing the health and growth of each family member into their individual calling as a collective unit. The church is not much different. The book unpacks what a Spiritual Father is and what it is not and looks at the characteristics of a true son.

What did you like about the book?

The systematic approach makes it easy to follow and understand. The parallel between how we father our earthly kids and how that applies to the way we lead others makes the book relatable.

What did you not like about this book?

The systematic approach can feel a bit like a checklist, and I am reminded that our children are so different, as we communicate values to them our interaction with each of our children may be different with out a compromise on values. Walk in step with Spirit as you apply the points raised in the book, as you build into those you lead make sure that your work is saturated with the Lords wisdom rather than implementing a check-list.

Who would benefit most from reading this book?

This book will add value to all lead elders, elders, deacons and those who feel that they have a specific call or desire for leadership.

Do you recommend this book?

Yes, without reservation!

If someone reads this book, they should be aware of the following...

The book has a definite bend towards leadership and building team in the church. The book would be most beneficial for those already in church leadership.

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About the book review author:

Hugo Lourens is a devoted lover of Jesus who has been married to his wife, Sarah since 2003. He takes great pride in being a father to two amazing daughters and is also a successful business owner.

Hugo's faith in God serves as the cornerstone of his life, influencing every decision he makes and molding his character. Joining Oxygen in 2012 has been a privilege for him, as he cherishes the opportunity to share life with such a wonderful group of people.

Hugo came onto eldership in 2022 and now serves in the Walmer PM congregation.

With a remarkable 30 years of service to the Lord, Hugo finds immense honor and joy in being part of the eldership team at Oxygen Life Church. His passion lies in witnessing fearless lovers of Jesus take the message of hope and salvation to the nations, actively working to establish God's kingdom.